Recommendable book to boost your willpower: The Willpower Instinct of Kelly McGonigal

The best way to make sure you never again give in to temptation (such as eating another chocolate) is to beat yourself up, so that you will never do it again. Quite logical, isn't it? However, it turns out that this is not such a clever way to motivate yourself, because if you feel guilty, this negative feeling is most likely to disappear by eating more. As a result, cheating a little may lead to the infamous 'what the hell effect'.


This is one of the many self-control undermining processes discussed in the book 'The Willpower Instinct' of Kelly McGonigal. Recently, it has been translated into Dutch ('De kracht van wilskracht - Hoe zelfbeheersing werkt en wat je eraan kan doen').

Willpower is one of the hottest topics in research and studied in a diverse range of fields. This book clearly explains the science behind willpower, how it functions and what key problems are. Moreover, informed by numerous studies, the author offers useful strategies to deal with tempation in daily life. After reading this book, it is obvious that willpower is much more than a simple 'just do it' strength that you need to finish your 'to do'-list or drop a few pounds of overweight.

What I particularly like are the chapters about the role of dopamine in anticipation of rewards. When you expect, see or eat food, the brain releases dopamine and gets excited. You can override this automatic system by using your prefrontal cortex in the front of your brain, which is responsibe for more reflective and conscious decisions. Indeed, that is where willpower is located in your head. Unfortunately, this cortex has many things to worry about and gets easily distracted. Small changes or new habits that make you remind your goals and create awarenes such as meditating and exercising will build the foundation for more enduring change. They make your willpower system more efficient and fuelled to do its tasks.

This book is definitely a must-read, also because willpower is not presented as a miracle solution to life's challenges. Yes, you can get more of it, but it has its limits. That reminds me of a sentence I read in a paper of Hofmann, Friese and Wiers (2008): 'Human life would be less pleasurable without our propensity to act impulsively: An over-controlled life can be even psychologically and physically damaging.' So, train your willpower, but give yourself the occasional break.

3 surprising insights on how food cravings relate to other desires in everyday life

What is harder to resist? Checking your Twitter or Facebook account at work or eating a delicious, but fattening snack when you try to watch your calories? Both are inner conflicts, best described as 'I really want to do this, but I should not'.

In many food studies it is assumed that people have conflicting feelings when being confronted with tempting foods. But is that really the case in everyday life? What type of cravings are felt most strongly? And if people do crave foods, how often are they trying to resist their desire?

Wilhelm Hofmann, Kathlees Vohs and Roy Baummeister recently tried to answer these questions in their Everyday Temptation Study. They gave BlackBerrys to 205 participants and contacted them on 7 random times per day for one week. When they were contacted, they had to indicate what type of desire they experienced within the last 30 minutes, how conflicted they felt about this desire, whether they tried to resist the desire and how successful they were in this. The study included all types of everyday desires, including the desire to eat, drink, have sex, sleep, spend money and use media (such as social media). Here are 3 insights that I found most surprising.

1)   Food is not the hardest desire to resist
People feel some desire about half the time they are awake. In hours, this is about eight hours a day. Almost half of those desires are conflicting at least somewhat with other goals in life.
Interestingly, food is not the hardest desire to resist. It is much more difficult to fight the desire for sleep and fun leisure activitities (such as checking Facebook). These two were considered to be the hardest to resist. Only 23% of all conflicting desires go against some health goals (for example healthy eating or exercise). The majority of reported inner conflicts were related to goals such as saving money, achievements at work or study, social appearance and efficient time use.

In other words, it is harder to resist impulses to spend money, participate in sports, use (social) media and smoke than it is to resist eating.

2)   We spend three hours a day resisting desires
The majority of desires in everyday life are not resisted. We have to eat anyway, so why trying to resist it? When people do try to resist them, they are quite successful in it; in 83% of all inner conflicts, they succeed to not give in. Still, in 17% of all occasions, people do give in. They particularly fail to resist checking e-mail, Facebook, Twitter of other social media when they do not want to do that.

3)   Stop resisting the numerous cravings throughout a day
Besides that we spend about three hours per day resisting desires, we also spend half an hour giving in to desires that we initially resisted. The more often you try to resist a desire, the less willpower is left at the end of the day and the more likely it is that you go for the 'forbidden' food. This confirms the 'muscle model' of willpower, which states that willpower is like a muscle that needs refuel.

So, do not replete your willpower, stop reading this blog post and go back to work.



What is harder to resist; Twitter and Facebook at work or the temptation of an unhealthy snack?

Hofmann W, Baumeister RF, Förster G, & Vohs KD (2012). Everyday temptations: an experience sampling study of desire, conflict, and self-control. Journal of personality and social psychology, 102 (6), 1318-35 PMID: 22149456

Is there hope for a thinner future?

There is not much progress made in combatting the overweight and obesity epidemic. That is a conclusion drawn in a recent paper of the prominent researchers Peter Herman and Janet Polivy: 'Self-regulation and the obesity epidemic' (Social Issues and Policy Review).  I found it an inspiring paper. Both authors are highly influential and experienced in the field of experimental psychology of eating behaviour and obesity. Because of their outstanding track record, I recommend reading their paper and think about it. Their take home message is not a positive one, however.   

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The basic premise of the article of Herman and Polivy is that researchers should be sceptical about interventions, both at the individual and societal level. They state that many researchers suggest that progress is being made or just around the corner. But actually, this is not true. Their review of the literature coupled with the decades of  professional experience made them conclude the following: ‘Scrutiny of the statistics, however, suggest that not much progress has been made so far in combatting the problem; in fact, it is probably easier to make the case that things are continuing to get worse’.

The best interventions at an individual level (e.g. clinical interventions) are expensive or impossible to implement on a community-wide basis. Although the authors agree with many scientists that interventions at a societal level (e.g. reshaping of the environment) are needed, they are not optimistic. Basically, many ideas for interventions will not work or even backfire, they argue.



Obesity is a very serious problem. Herman and Polivy stress that it not ok to implement unproven interventions. They warn that scientists should be cautious about applying solutions that turn out to be ineffective as the little trust that the public has in social scientists should not be destroyed.

What do you think? Is there really not much progress made? Is there hope for a thinner future?

The Oprah Paradox: why people with excellent self-discipline also have a hard time controlling their body weight

Willpower has typically been looked at as a trait that one has or has not. For decades, self-esteem was the concept that needed to be promoted while self-control was viewed as old-fashioned. But willpower is back in fashion as research has shown that it is a key positive factor predicting happiness and well-being.

I just finished reading the book 'Willpower' of Roy Baumeister and John Tierney (In Dutch: Wilskracht: De herontdekking van de grootste kracht van de mens). Roy Baumeister is a leading scientist in the field of willpower and self regulation and became widely known for the process of 'ego depletion'. Having too many choices will exhausten your self-control as we draw on the same source of willpower for various tasks, not just related tasks. That means that willpower is like a muscle which needs to be fuelled by sleep and food (glucose).

Wilskracht - Baumeister & Tierney

In chapter 10, Baumeister and Tierney discuss what they label the 'Oprah Paradox'. Oprah Winfrey must have had excellent self-discipline and willpower to achieve the success that she did. Nevertheless, even she has a hard time to consistently control her weight. The authors discuss this paradox by listing some reasons why dieters fail. In order not to eat, a dieter needs willpower. Willpower runs on glucose. So, to fuel willpower, a dieter needs to eat. In other words, dieters deprive themselves from what they need the most. Another big threat is that dieters often fall for the so-called 'what the hell effect'. A small slip in their diet will make them blow off the dieting rules entirely. Dieting is obviously not the solution. The authors argue for small manageble changes. Over time, these small changes will become habits and having good habits saves willpower.

Overall, this is a book absolutely worth reading as it clearly shows how important willpower is. In an entertaining way the authors offer advice on how to strengthen self-control and use willpower wisely. One of them is: never say never when it comes to dealing with tempting foods. It is better to tell yourself to eat a small portion later than forbid yourself to eat them at all. This postponement method allows the impulse to fade away and in this way encourages self-control.